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ain't nothing wrong with being a virgin by BaconMagic ain't nothing wrong with being a virgin by BaconMagic
Go ahead and fuck at the age of 14 like the dumbass you are, but I'm waiting for the right time and the right person. C: Society can't tell me what to do.

Not by any means implying that having had sex (responsibly) is a bad thing, just saying that just because someone is a virgin doesn't mean they're a loser, no-lifer, or any of that crap.
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Lycanamu Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Student
I LOVE YOU for making this stamp and for the description. Seriously.

I'm a "virgin" (I just don't like the word nor identify with it at all) and have been single for my whole lifetime. For many reasons. But why'd I even have to validate this thing about myself in any way? People who first had sex at the age of 13 and have like six ex-girl/boyfriends don't need to validate their stuff either... o__o

Once I was about to loose my virginity together with a... Friend of mine. I would only have done it to "be like everyone else and just already bang someone". And that's why I backed down. I didn't feel like doing it. At all. I felt anxious. And I must say I'm not sorry...

I don't understand our society's obsession with virginity... Why does such a word even exist? It's horrible that people are pressured to have sex and form relationships to be NORMAL, because if they don't, they'll be told they're losers of some kind. This is exactly what causes the fedora-wearing misogynist guys who complain about "friendzone". They think they can't be full human beings without having sex or being in a relationship, so when they don't get that, they feel bitter. I actually kind of know what these guys feel like; I have felt bitter for my loneliness, too. But it's due to the standards of our society being fucked up, not me. I'm not a looser for not having had sex, seriously.

I want to be in a relationship because I love someone who loves me back and isn't taken already.  And yes, I'm aware that some people are lucky enough to find the love of their life at this age. I feel bitter sometimes. Because I have loved. Many times. I've just never really had the chance to share the closeness and intimacy (intimacy = NOT the same as sex; I talk about emotions here) with someone special to me.

But would I feel so bitter if it was considered normal to be a virgin and single at my age? Probably not. The norms of society. They're trying to kill me inside. Just because I'm waiting to meet the right person. I already know what true love feels like, because I have loved. She was taken, unfortunately. But because I know what is it like to truly find someone worth your time, I know what kind of people I like.

Not sorry to be who I am. Not sorry to have lived my life the way I have. I regret nothing. I am me, valuable, worthy and awesome on my own; I wouldn't mind finding someone, but I want to feel like I'm good enough right now as well.
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friedmouse Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Its only bad if you're a male, then you're like elliot roger lol
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TheMadStingRey Featured By Owner 2 days ago  Hobbyist General Artist
I think it's good for both genders. U v u because it proves you know when to wait.
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friedmouse Featured By Owner 2 days ago  Hobbyist General Artist
That's true, I'm just being an asshole. ;D
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FabulousEmma Featured By Owner Nov 18, 2014  Student General Artist
I'm sick of virgins and non-virgins being bullied, it's obnoxious 
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legoland5254 Featured By Owner Edited Oct 13, 2014
Athough I don't find anything wrong with being a virgin, (infact I think in christianity being a virgin means you're pure.) I still think virgin jokes are hilarous. Like this one www.youtube.com/watch?v=9kDhcT…
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CheeseyBee1 Featured By Owner Sep 12, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
OMG I hate this (not the stamp I love the stamp)
Virgin-eww? Your still a virgin?, ugh you are dead to me
woman after sex (like asked)- GAWD, your such a slut. OMG you whore!

THEN WHAT THE HELL DO YOU WANT US TO DO???!!!!!
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RedStars7 Featured By Owner Sep 8, 2014
I would say technically it is a bad thing; not because It's wrong to not be sexually active, but because the concept of virginity is negative in general. It existed in the day only to keep women the enslaved property of men, and even today virginity has connotations that women are still property and don't have sexual rights (the idea that virginity is 'lost' or 'stolen' comes from the idea that sex is a commodity, The idea that if a woman has PIV sex she's more dirty and slutty/has more to lose but a man is/does not, two women who have slept together still being seen as 'virgins' because no man was around to claim their bodies as his own piece of meat, rape victims seen as 'non-virgins' because a man was there to steal an invisible 'sacred' object from them and leave his taint on them).

It's outdated, it has to go. It's 2014, there's no such thing as virginity, only inexperienced people.
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LunaGamerImInPortal Featured By Owner Nov 2, 2014  Student General Artist
Epic clap  good job my friend.
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RedStars7 Featured By Owner Nov 2, 2014
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