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ain't nothing wrong with being a virgin by BaconMagic ain't nothing wrong with being a virgin by BaconMagic
Go ahead and fuck at the age of 14 like the dumbass you are, but I'm waiting for the right time and the right person. C: Society can't tell me what to do.

Not by any means implying that having had sex (responsibly) is a bad thing, just saying that just because someone is a virgin doesn't mean they're a loser, no-lifer, or any of that crap.
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ZadaMakara Featured By Owner 1 day ago  Hobbyist General Artist
virgin good
stay a virgin till you're not a teenybopper anymore
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MetallicGirl Featured By Owner Feb 13, 2015  Professional Writer
People don't understand that there IS a middle ground between "slut" and "prude".
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CatImAKittyKat Featured By Owner Feb 9, 2015
Best stamp ever.
You deserve a promotion.:iconpromotionplz:
#virginpower
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AK-I-T Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
HA
SOMEONE SAID IT
THANK YOU
No honestly everytime I hear someone go
"You're still a virgin!?" I'm sitting there watching the guy that has to answer like, Uh... so? And the guy is stuttering and I DON'T GET IT
Like losing yours doesn't affect much at all. Maybe they want to study hard, get a good job so they can SUPPORT A FAMILY before looking for a spouse?!
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PokeSmosher365 Featured By Owner Jan 7, 2015  Student General Artist
((When someone tells me a se joke or acts like everyone has sex, I always say something along the lines of "Screw sex!  I have anime."))
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hachi--p Featured By Owner Edited Jan 7, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Yes!Whats wrong with being a virgin,huh?I LOVE you for creating this stamp.Because I am a virgin and I dont get whats the big deal about it.Everyone must know that this is a choice,not all women are ready to have intercourse from a young age or older age!I personally blame those stupid television shows that promote adolesence sex,and brainwash the children with thoughts that they shouldnt have for now!And that stupid thought that a girl who happened to have sex with someone,which was her own choice,and other people call her a slut,whore,e.t.c.I am sorry but are YOU better to call her like that?!?This is her own body and her own life,you have no right to call her like that,because she is human,too!And what about the boys?!?They dont have to feel ashamed about being a virgin and be forced to engage in sexual acts because their friends have done it!I dont understand this,why those boys cant wait to find someone,that they will love and care and there to lose their virginity to that person..In many countries,like mine for example,there are great numbers of boys that lose their virginity in a young age,and that happens because they are embarassed for what they are...It is sad :(...*sigh*I will never get this situation...
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Lycanamu Featured By Owner Dec 17, 2014  Student General Artist
I LOVE YOU for making this stamp and for the description. Seriously.

I'm a "virgin" (I just don't like the word nor identify with it at all) and have been single for my whole lifetime. For many reasons. But why'd I even have to validate this thing about myself in any way? People who first had sex at the age of 13 and have like six ex-girl/boyfriends don't need to validate their stuff either... o__o

Once I was about to loose my virginity together with a... Friend of mine. I would only have done it to "be like everyone else and just already bang someone". And that's why I backed down. I didn't feel like doing it. At all. I felt anxious. And I must say I'm not sorry...

I don't understand our society's obsession with virginity... Why does such a word even exist? It's horrible that people are pressured to have sex and form relationships to be NORMAL, because if they don't, they'll be told they're losers of some kind. This is exactly what causes the fedora-wearing misogynist guys who complain about "friendzone". They think they can't be full human beings without having sex or being in a relationship, so when they don't get that, they feel bitter. I actually kind of know what these guys feel like; I have felt bitter for my loneliness, too. But it's due to the standards of our society being fucked up, not me. I'm not a looser for not having had sex, seriously.

I want to be in a relationship because I love someone who loves me back and isn't taken already.  And yes, I'm aware that some people are lucky enough to find the love of their life at this age. I feel bitter sometimes. Because I have loved. Many times. I've just never really had the chance to share the closeness and intimacy (intimacy = NOT the same as sex; I talk about emotions here) with someone special to me.

But would I feel so bitter if it was considered normal to be a virgin and single at my age? Probably not. The norms of society. They're trying to kill me inside. Just because I'm waiting to meet the right person. I already know what true love feels like, because I have loved. She was taken, unfortunately. But because I know what is it like to truly find someone worth your time, I know what kind of people I like.

Not sorry to be who I am. Not sorry to have lived my life the way I have. I regret nothing. I am me, valuable, worthy and awesome on my own; I wouldn't mind finding someone, but I want to feel like I'm good enough right now as well.
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abrakada-vermin Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Its only bad if you're a male, then you're like elliot roger lol
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C-Pancake Featured By Owner Dec 18, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
I think it's good for both genders. U v u because it proves you know when to wait.
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abrakada-vermin Featured By Owner Dec 18, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
That's true, I'm just being an asshole. ;D
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FabulousEmma Featured By Owner Nov 18, 2014  Student General Artist
I'm sick of virgins and non-virgins being bullied, it's obnoxious 
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RowdyRocks909 Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2014
Same here.
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legoland5254 Featured By Owner Edited Oct 13, 2014
Athough I don't find anything wrong with being a virgin, (infact I think in christianity being a virgin means you're pure.) I still think virgin jokes are hilarous. Like this one www.youtube.com/watch?v=9kDhcT…
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CheeseyBee1 Featured By Owner Sep 12, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
OMG I hate this (not the stamp I love the stamp)
Virgin-eww? Your still a virgin?, ugh you are dead to me
woman after sex (like asked)- GAWD, your such a slut. OMG you whore!

THEN WHAT THE HELL DO YOU WANT US TO DO???!!!!!
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C-Pancake Featured By Owner Jan 28, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Thank you for this comment ; v ; It's lovely.
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CheeseyBee1 Featured By Owner Jan 28, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Haha no worries ;P
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RedStars7 Featured By Owner Sep 8, 2014
I would say technically it is a bad thing; not because It's wrong to not be sexually active, but because the concept of virginity is negative in general. It existed in the day only to keep women the enslaved property of men, and even today virginity has connotations that women are still property and don't have sexual rights (the idea that virginity is 'lost' or 'stolen' comes from the idea that sex is a commodity, The idea that if a woman has PIV sex she's more dirty and slutty/has more to lose but a man is/does not, two women who have slept together still being seen as 'virgins' because no man was around to claim their bodies as his own piece of meat, rape victims seen as 'non-virgins' because a man was there to steal an invisible 'sacred' object from them and leave his taint on them).

It's outdated, it has to go. It's 2014, there's no such thing as virginity, only inexperienced people.
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AClockworkKitten Featured By Owner 6 days ago  Student Digital Artist
Oh for fuck's sake why do you care?
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RedStars7 Featured By Owner 6 days ago
*replies to a comment literally 5 months old*
lmfao
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AClockworkKitten Featured By Owner 6 days ago  Student Digital Artist
:iconlazyrollplz:

Do you still care?
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RedStars7 Featured By Owner 6 days ago
Nope. I'm pretty much over this subject since then.
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AClockworkKitten Featured By Owner 6 days ago  Student Digital Artist
Kk.
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ComixThreeSevens Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2015  Hobbyist Writer
You're really fucking disgusting.
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LunaGamerImInPortal Featured By Owner Nov 2, 2014  Student General Artist
Epic clap  good job my friend.
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RedStars7 Featured By Owner Nov 2, 2014
<33333
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LunaGamerImInPortal Featured By Owner Nov 2, 2014  Student General Artist
Big Fool Emoji-28 (High Five YES) [V4] 
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How is there no such thing as virginity when even older people don't have sex at all? Or what about asexual people that don't want/have never had sex? Are they not virgins either? Another thing, this stamp was made last year, it's not outdated.
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RedStars7 Featured By Owner Sep 13, 2014
That's not what I'm saying. I believe in people who have never had sex, but I don't believe in virginity as a concept. I have never done anything sexual with another person, but I don't call myself a 'virgin', I'm just sexually inexperienced.
It's the definition and the connotations of virginity that are the problem. Even in today's society 'virgin' means someone who hasn't had penis-in-vagina sex, which is problematic because well what about gay people? What about rape victims? Sex on the other hand can mean anything involving genitals, and rape doesn't count as sex. And the fact that society believes that virginity is a sacred object you can only lose once....well, that's pretty bullshit actually. Because everytime you have sex it can be new or scary, and rape victims are also lead to believe they can't have a real first time anymore just because someone 'stole' a non-existent object (virginity) from them because of this terminology.
I don't believe virginity exists because there's no such thing as having an imaginary sacred object that only a man can 'claim'. There is such a thing however, as being sexually inactive and inexperienced because we all start somewhere. There are SO many different ways to have sex, which is why virginity is useless; there's only such a thing as exclaiming what sex acts you have or haven't done.
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Italy-Chibitalia Featured By Owner Sep 13, 2014
Being a virgin is a thing though. Excuse me if I don't make sense, health class wasn't my strong point, but when a person hasn't had sex (including rape and everything else) is a virgin. Whether being a virgin is seen as something bad in today's mind it doesn't mean that it's not there as an actual thing. Even with homosexuals, you are a virgin before you have sex with someone (sadly, even if you're raped, your virginity is lost if you were a virgin).
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RedStars7 Featured By Owner Sep 13, 2014
I don't agree. As a lesbian myself, I get constantly told I'll always stay a 'virgin' until I sleep with a man, regardless of my number of female partners. Which is pretty damn bullshit and sexist. And highly oppressive especially since we're at higher risk for rape and sexual abuse. It's another reason I refuse to use the term because I don't believe a man has any right to 'claim' my 'virginity' just because he's a man. 
Rape had always been subjective as well. Even thousands of years ago, before we even had rights, there were plenty of professionals who believed that rape victims were still virgins. There were also people that didn't, so It's not definitive. Personally speaking, I don't count rape. It's not sex, It's violence. Plenty of rape victims commit suicide on a daily basis because they're not 'virgins' anymore. Imagine how many lives could be saved if survivors actually had a choice in the matter? 

There's no such thing as virginity in my opinion, because the word has no consistent definition anyway. The definition changes depending on your time period, your culture, your country. Hell, when virginity was first created, it actually wasn't even related to sex or genitals at all. The definition has changed multiple times throughout history.
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HUANGXUELI Featured By Owner Sep 21, 2014
Love happens in all genders. Two girls having intentional sex, you can count that as virginity loss.

Rape is different...But...When someone says "The criminal stole the woman's virginity" it's basically rape.

I don't want the word "virgin" to be dead, but changed?
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RedStars7 Featured By Owner Sep 21, 2014
I agree completely. If the word 'virgin' was changed, I would not despise the term as much as I do. I would not have a problem if two girls were included as 'loss of virginity'.

My main problem with virginity is the wording. "Lose one's virginity" sounds extremely ugly and rapey in my opinion. You don't 'lose' anything from sex; a lack of sexual experience isn't an object that someone takes or steals from you. The wording itself is why rape victims have so many struggles; they end up thinking something special was 'stolen' from them and they can't give it to their partner anymore, which I find morally wrong. I think real sex should be something we choose, not something we have 'taken' from us as I believe rape survivors can have a consensual experience that feels just as special and new as anyone else who had no experience beforehand.

But yes, I agree.
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HUANGXUELI Featured By Owner Sep 23, 2014
I see what you mean. Poor souls.

Sorry if I get a little off-topic, but I've heard that in some countries woman get punished if they are raped, because they thought it was the woman's fault if it happened to them.
Sad.
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Italy-Chibitalia Featured By Owner Sep 13, 2014
I'm not gonna state much more, due to how I don't know a lot of things health wise (I'm asexual, so I don't know much XD)

But, I believe that gays/lesbians do lose their virginity to their partner once in the act of sex.
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RedStars7 Featured By Owner Sep 13, 2014
Okay, thanks for debating with me healthily then :D I'm glad at least you think the concept is open to homosexuals which is good and progressive <3
I just get more heated on this topic than anything else, so you're fine I have nothing against you ^^
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Italy-Chibitalia Featured By Owner Sep 13, 2014
Hey no problem. And I'm always supportive of homosexuals~.
I can tell you get so heated. You have good skills with debating. :)
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Snail--Day-and-Night Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
So a 12 year-old teen isn't a virgin, he's just inexperienced having sex? You either mean "they haven't experienced sex" or I call bull.

Virginity, while mostly applying to women, also applies to men who haven't had sexual intercourse. The whole "virgin meant enslavement" was a thing of the far past, and those connotations you claim to still exist aren't even here anymore. Maybe in other countries where sexism is rampant due to beliefs, but in places like America or Europe? Nuh-uh.

Virginity has nothing to do with women's "oppression", it's a word to describe someone who hasn't had sexual intercouse. It doesn't matter that in the past it was sexist. It's 2014. The word's meaning has changed by now. 
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RedStars7 Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2014
Yes, by sexually inexperienced I mean someone who has never had sexual contact with another person. That's exactly what I mean. There is no need to use the word virgin when you can just say you're inexperienced or not sexually active. Especially since inexperience and sexually active refers to more than just one type of narrow-minded definition of sex.

Personally, I think that defining virginity by sexual intercourse (which generally means penis-in-vagina) is outdated and sexist in itself, and that's EXACTLY what I'm getting at by my original comment. It's very male-dominated and excludes homosexual sexual experiences as well as including rape/sexual abuse ones. A woman who sleeps with other women may still be classified as a 'virgin', but if this same person gets raped by a man once in the future, he 'took her virginity' and that is DISGUSTING. That is mainly what I'm getting at when I say it still hints at women being property today. I don't mean we're literally enslaved by men. What I mean is that our sexuality is still dependent on men, that we're taught we need a man to 'lose virginity' or have a sexual milestone, and that even our abusers can take this so called 'virginity' from us. That implies property on itself and denies independence for female sexuality, especially when we're taught our virginity is a sacred milestone that we can never get back. Like I said this is 2014 and we should understand there is more to sex besides intercourse, and unwanted intercourse isn't really sex.

As for male virginity, it didn't exist until the modern times, It is a very very new idea. In some countries it still doesn't exist. It originally had to do with the hymen popping. Which is another thing that annoys me personally, because most of the people that argue the definitions of virginity fail to realize that a man can't even be one to begin with.

Again, I prefer the term sexually inexperienced or sexually active, because again those terms are very inclusive to non-PIV acts and also excludes non-consensual PIV so it becomes practical and doesn't make anyone feel shameful or inferior over whatever sexual history they have.
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Foreverfoxwings Featured By Owner Sep 5, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
You didn't have a dick up your pussy. So what? Nothing big.
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GingaDanyanShiriusu Featured By Owner Aug 20, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
All these people who say shit like 'I hit dat all da time!", I'll be here saying "Hope you like having STD."
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xXBlue-ReaperXx Featured By Owner Aug 26, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
That's what I say!
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IcyKixz260 Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2014  Hobbyist Artist
I just returned to school from being home schooled for two years, and the first thing I get is this: Everybody is addicted to their phones, swear, and act like mousebrains. Then there's a student that has already had sex several times and smokes with drugs.

Mom, why did I leave homeschool in the first place?
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HUANGXUELI Featured By Owner Sep 21, 2014
public schools and so many mousebrains?

Better off homeschooled, then. (jk)
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IcyKixz260 Featured By Owner Sep 22, 2014  Hobbyist Artist
xD
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Flaming-Cat Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Did you get that mousebrain thing from warrior cats? Anyway yea people in my school are addicted to their phones and swearing to, theres also this kid that acts like he's high o___o
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IcyKixz260 Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2014  Hobbyist Artist
Yeah, Warriors accidentally mixed in with my language. xD Ikr? D:
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The-Magical-Elf Featured By Owner Aug 15, 2014  Student Writer
Wow, Warriors did the same thing. Every now and then I take StarClan's name in vain rather than God's.
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IcyKixz260 Featured By Owner Aug 15, 2014  Hobbyist Artist
Ikr? It's like an contagious language!
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The-Magical-Elf Featured By Owner Aug 15, 2014  Student Writer
Exactly!
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Flaming-Cat Featured By Owner Aug 15, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Lol that's awesome xD anyway another thing is their also addicted to bullying my, not for being a virgin but for having acne o3o; dear Starclan first time ever telling anyone I'm virgin since I normaly keep that to myself but hey its not like a lot of others aren't saying it xD
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